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Conception: Not Just a Chemical Reaction by A.C. Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupada Any father and mother should also be careful while begetting children. The mental condition of a child depends upon the mental status of his parents at the time he is conceived. According to the Vedic system, therefore, the garbhadhana-samskara, or the ceremony for giving birth to a child, is observed. Before begetting a child, one has to sanctify his perplexed mind. When the parents engage their minds in the lotus feet of the Lord and in such a state the child is born, naturally good devotee children come; when the society is full of such good population, there is no trouble from demoniac mentalities. more |
In this age the symptoms of the human beings is described in the Srimad-Bhagavatam that prayena alpayushah.
prayena alpa ayushah(kalav) asmin yuge janahmandah sumanda-matayomanda-bhagya hy upadrutah [SB 1.1.10]
This
is the condition at the present moment. This is called Kali-yuga. The
first symptom is: our span of life is very short, decreasing. With the
advancement of Kali-yuga, our duration of life is decreasing. Everyone
knows that. My father lived so many years, my grandfather lived so many
years, but it is certain I am not going to live so many years. And then
my son is not... Gradually, it is reduced. Reducing, reducing,
reducing. By the end of Kali-yuga, the duration of life from twenty
years to thirty years will be considered very, very old age, very, very
old. If a man is living for twenty-five years, he will be considered a
very grand old man. Yes. That is coming gradually. So therefore it is
said, manda, manda. Manda means everything bad or everything
slow. Duration of life is bad, then their activities also very bad,
always sinful activities. Mandah sumanda-matayo [SB
1.1.10]. And if somebody is little anxious to take shelter of somebody
for spiritual advancement, then he will accept some bogus thing, sumanda-matayo,
some bogus incarnation of God, some bogus yogi, some bogus...
They will take sumanda-matayo, will not come to the real.
Here it is said that mat-sarvasva-padambhojau
radha-madana-mohanau One should take shelter of the lotus feet
of Krishna. Instead of taking shelter of the lotus feet of Krishna, he
will take shelter of the lotus feet of some bogus. That's it. They are
called manda-matayo, manufacturing something new: "This is our
process of religion." They do not know that religion cannot be
manufactured. Religion is eternal. Religion... Dharmam tu
sakshad bhagavat-pranitam [SB 6.3.19]. Religion means the law
given by God. The God is eternal; therefore His law is eternal. So how
we can manufacture? You cannot manufacture religion. God is eternal,
and His law is also eternal. Therefore God personally comes, and He
says that "You have manufactured so many religions, but that is not
religion. You give it up. You give them up."
Sarva-dharman parityajya: [Bhagavad-gita 18.66]
"Give up all this nonsense." Then what should be my religion? Mam
ekam sharanam vraja, that's all. This is eternal religion. Mam
ekam: "Only unto Me." The religion is very simplified, but still,
people are... Because mandah sumanda-matayo [SB 1.1.10],
they have got some nasty ideas, they manufacture different types of
religion. Religion is one. That is eternal. God is one. That is
eternal. Take anything, like gold. Gold is gold, always gold. Millions
of years ago the what was gold, the metal, the same metal is still
there. You cannot say, "This is Hindu gold," "This is Muslim gold,"
"This is Christian gold." Gold is gold. Similarly, God is one. You
cannot say, "This is Hindu God," "This is Muslim God," "This is
Christian God." God is one, and eternal. Therefore religion is one,
eternal. That is Krishna consciousness, or God consciousness. God is
one. You are also one because you are part and parcel. But you have
created your struggle for existence because you are thinking otherwise
without Krishna consciousness. Manah shashthanindriyani
prakriti-sthani karshati [Bg. 15.7]. Because you have created
different types of mind, different types of desires, and you are trying
to fulfill it, that is called struggle for existence. Otherwise you are
existing eternally, and your consciousness is one: think of Krishna.
But because you are doing not, not doing that, therefore there is
struggle. That is maya. That is maya. Otherwise there
is no question of struggling. Everything is there, plain and simple.
So that is Krishna consciousness movement. We are preaching that God is
one and to think of God is also one and to become obedient servant of
God, that is also one. Not that you have to become a different servant,
I have to become different servant. Everyone is servant originally. So
we accept to serve God. Then our religion is there; our fulfillment of
desires are there.
In
our Krishna consciousness movement we prohibit illicit sex,
intoxication, meat-eating, and gambling. In Kali-yuga, a drunken,
half-naked woman embracing a drunken man is a very common sight,
especially in the Western countries, and restraining oneself after
seeing such things is very difficult. Nevertheless, if by the grace of
Krishna a man adheres to the regulative principles and chants the Hare
Krishna mantra, Krishna will certainly protect him. Indeed,
Krishna says that His devotee is never vanquished (
kaunteya pratijanihi na me bhaktah pranashyati [Bg. 9.31]).
Therefore all the disciples practicing Krishna consciousness should
obediently follow the regulative principles and remain fixed in
chanting the holy name of the Lord. Then there need be no fear.
Otherwise one's position is very dangerous.
Ajamila had vowed to follow the regulative principles of spiritual
life. But as we see, even when one is highly qualified there is the
chance of a fall. Seeing the low-class couple engaged in public sex
proved to be his downfall. Everyone knows that a husband and wife have
sexual intercourse, but this should be done privately. Sex in public is
animalistic. Similarly, sex with many partners is illicit. Nowadays
illicit sex is common throughout the world, especially in the Western
countries. A young girl thinks, "I will find a suitable man, attract
him, and have sex, but I won't marry him right away. I will test this
man, then that man. When I have found the one who makes me happy, then
I will marry." This is the mentality of a prostitute. And similarly,
the young boys are hunting for many sex partners. These are commonplace
activities in Western countries, where the boys and girls receive no
spiritual training.
In such a cat-and-dog society, there can be no peace. All the leaders
talk about peace, and they meet in peace conferences, but there can be
no peace from conferring and passing resolutions. There cannot be peace
unless the whole social structure is reformed, and that can be done
only by Krishna consciousness.
Krishna consciousness is cultivated by good association, just as a
degraded mentality is a result of bad association. As Lord Rishabhadeva
says in the Srimad-Bhagavatam (5.5.2), mahat-sevam
dvaram ahur vimuktes tamo-dvaram yoshitam sangi-sangam: "If we
want to open the door to liberation, we should engage ourselves in the
service of the mahatmas, the pure devotees, but if we want to
open the door to hellish life, then we can associate with those who are
very attached to women." The lusty people of today's so-called
civilized society do not care for Krishna consciousness. They do not
care for their elderly family members. They indulge in sex in the
street, on the beach, in the cinema. Sex is advertised constantly to
attract the attention of the people. In this way materialistic atheists
add fuel to the fire of lust, and people are going to hell.
Arjuna said: O descendant of Vrishni, by what is one impelled to sinful acts, even unwillingly, as if engaged by force?
A living entity, as part and parcel of the Supreme, is originally spiritual, pure, and free from all material contaminations. Therefore, by nature he is not subjected to the sins of the material world. But when he is in contact with the material nature, he acts in many sinful ways without hesitation, and sometimes even against his will. As such, Arjuna's question to Krishna is very sanguine, as to the perverted nature of the living entities. Although the living entity sometimes does not want to act in sin, he is still forced to act. Sinful actions are not, however, impelled by the Supersoul within, but are due to another cause, as the Lord explains in the next verse.
The Blessed Lord said: It is lust only, Arjuna, which is born of contact with the material modes of passion and later transformed into wrath, and which is the all-devouring, sinful enemy of this world.
When
a living entity comes in contact with the material creation, his
eternal love for Krishna is transformed into lust, in association with
the mode of passion. Or, in other words, the sense of love of God
becomes transformed into lust, as milk in contact with sour tamarind is
transformed into yogurt. Then again, when lust is unsatisfied, it turns
into wrath; wrath is transformed into illusion, and illusion continues
the material existence. Therefore, lust is the greatest enemy of the
living entity, and it is lust only which induces the pure living entity
to remain entangled in the material world. Wrath is the manifestation
of the mode of ignorance; these modes exhibit themselves as wrath and
other corollaries. If, therefore, the modes of passion, instead of
being degraded into the modes of ignorance, are elevated to the modes
of goodness by the prescribed method of living and acting, then one can
be saved from the degradation of wrath by spiritual attachment.
The Supreme Personality of Godhead expanded Himself into many for His
ever-increasing spiritual bliss, and the living entities are parts and
parcels of this spiritual bliss. They also have partial independence,
but by misuse of their independence, when the service attitude is
transformed into the propensity for sense enjoyment, they come under
the sway of lust. This material creation is created by the Lord to give
a facility to the conditioned souls to fulfill these lustful
propensities, and when they are completely baffled by prolonged lustful
activities, the living entities begin to inquire about their real
position.
This inquiry is the beginning of the Vedanta-sutras,
wherein it is said, athato brahma-jijnasa: one should
inquire into the Supreme. And the Supreme is defined in Srimad-Bhagavatam
as janmadyasya yato 'nvayad itaratash cha, or, "The
origin of everything is the Supreme Brahman." Therefore, the origin of
lust is also in the Supreme. If, therefore, lust is transformed into
love for the Supreme, or transformed into Krishna consciousness—or, in
other words, desiring everything for Krishna—then both lust and wrath
can be spiritualized. Hanuman, the great servitor of Lord Rama, engaged
his wrath upon his enemies for the satisfaction of the Lord. Therefore,
lust and wrath, when they are employed in Krishna consciousness, become
our friends instead of our enemies.
As fire is covered by smoke, as a mirror is covered by dust, or as the embryo is covered by the womb, similarly, the living entity is covered by different degrees of this lust.
There are three degrees of covering of the living entity by which his pure consciousness is obscured. This covering is but lust under different manifestations like smoke in the fire, dust on the mirror, and the womb about the embryo. When lust is compared to smoke, it is understood that the fire of the living spark can be a little perceived. In other words, when the living entity exhibits his Krishna consciousness slightly, he may be likened to the fire covered by smoke. Although fire is necessary where there is smoke, there is no overt manifestation of fire in the early stage. This stage is like the beginning of Krishna consciousness. The dust on the mirror refers to a cleansing process of the mirror of the mind by so many spiritual methods. The best process is to chant the holy names of the Lord. The embryo covered by the womb is an analogy illustrating a helpless position, for the child in the womb is so helpless that he cannot even move. This stage of living condition can be compared to that of the trees. The trees are also living entities, but they have been put in such a condition of life by such a great exhibition of lust that they are almost void of all consciousness. The covered mirror is compared to the birds and beasts, and the smoke covered fire is compared to the human being. In the form of a human being, the living entity may revive a little Krishna consciousness, and, if he makes further development, the fire of spiritual life can be kindled in the human form of life. By careful handling of the smoke in the fire, the fire can be made to blaze. Therefore the human form of life is a chance for the living entity to escape the entanglement of material existence. In the human form of life, one can conquer the enemy, lust, by cultivation of Krishna consciousness under able guidance.
Thus, a man's pure consciousness is covered by his eternal enemy in the form of lust, which is never satisfied and which burns like fire.
It is said in the Manu-smriti that lust cannot be satisfied by any amount of sense enjoyment, just as fire is never extinguished by a constant supply of fuel. In the material world, the center of all activities is sex, and thus this material world is called maithunya-agara, or the shackles of sex life. In the ordinary prison house, criminals are kept within bars; similarly, the criminals who are disobedient to the laws of the Lord are shackled by sex life. Advancement of material civilization on the basis of sense gratification means increasing the duration of the material existence of a living entity. Therefore, this lust is the symbol of ignorance by which the living entity is kept within the material world. While one enjoys sense gratification, it may be that there is some feeling of happiness, but actually that so-called feeling of happiness is the ultimate enemy of the sense enjoyer.
The senses, the mind and the intelligence are the sitting places of this lust, which veils the real knowledge of the living entity and bewilders him.
The enemy has captured different strategic positions in the body of the conditioned soul, and therefore Lord Krishna is giving hints of those places, so that one who wants to conquer the enemy may know where he can be found. Mind is the center of all the activities of the senses, and thus the mind is the reservoir of all ideas of sense gratification; and, as a result, the mind and the senses become the repositories of lust. Next, the intelligence department becomes the capital of such lustful propensities. Intelligence is the immediate next-door neighbor of the spirit soul. Lusty intelligence influences the spirit soul to acquire the false ego and identify itself with matter, and thus with the mind and senses. The spirit soul becomes addicted to enjoying the material senses and mistakes this as true happiness. This false identification of the spirit soul is very nicely explained in the Srimad-Bhagavatam:
yasyatma-buddhih kunape tri-dhatuke
sva-dhih kalatradishu bhauma idyadhih
yat-tirtha-buddhih salite na karhichij
janeshv abhijneshu sa eva gokharah
"A human being who identifies this body made of three elements with his self, who considers the by-products of the body to be his kinsmen, who considers the land of birth as worshipable, and who goes to the place of pilgrimage simply to take a bath rather than meet men of transcendental knowledge there, is to be considered as an ass or a cow."
Therefore, O Arjuna, best of the Bharatas, in the very beginning curb this great symbol of sin [lust] by regulating the senses, and slay this destroyer of knowledge and self-realization.
The
Lord advised Arjuna to regulate the senses from the very beginning so
that he could curb the greatest sinful enemy, lust, which destroys the
urge for self-realization, and specifically, knowledge of the self. Jnanam
refers to knowledge of self as distinguished from non-self, or, in
other words, knowledge that the spirit soul is not the body. Vijnanam
refers to specific knowledge of the spirit soul and knowledge of one's
constitutional position and his relationship to the Supreme Soul. It is
explained thus in the Srimad-Bhagavatam: jnanam
parama-guhyam me yad-vijnana
-samanvitam / sarahasyam tad-angam cha grihana gaditam maya:
"The knowledge of the self and the Supreme Self is very confidential
and mysterious, being veiled by maya, but such knowledge and
specific realization can be understood if it is explained by the Lord
Himself." Bhagavad-gita gives us that knowledge,
specifically knowledge of the self. The living entities are parts and
parcels of the Lord, and therefore they are simply meant to serve the
Lord. This consciousness is called Krishna consciousness. So, from the
very beginning of life one has to learn this Krishna consciousness, and
thereby one may become fully Krishna conscious and act accordingly.
Lust is only the perverted reflection of the love of God which is
natural for every living entity. But if one is educated in Krishna
consciousness from the very beginning, that natural love of God cannot
deteriorate into lust. When love of God deteriorates into lust, it is
very difficult to return to the normal condition. Nonetheless, Krishna
consciousness is so powerful that even a late beginner can become a
lover of God by following the regulative principles of devotional
service. So, from any stage of life, or from the time of understanding
its urgency, one can begin regulating the senses in Krishna
consciousness, devotional service of the Lord, and turn the lust into
love of Godhead—the highest perfectional stage of human life.