Training children to control their senses
In the beginning he should learn how to restrain his senses. If a child is taught to become saintly, his semen rises to his brain, and he is able to understand spiritual values. Wasting semen decreases intelligence. More
Guile, Gall and Gullibility
Chanakya Pandit has advised, vishvaso naiva kartavyah strishu raja-kuleshu cha: "Never place your faith in a woman or a politician." More
All paths do not lead to Rome, nor all buses take you home
One has to come to the point of Krishna consciousness. You may follow the yoga process, you may follow the philosophical process, you may follow the ritualistic process, or you may perform penances or engage in studying the Vedas. But unless you reach the point of Krishna consciousness, you will succeed only to a certain degree. More
You know it's over when your house is sawn in half
Forced separation cannot make anyone happy, but by mutual consent or by the Vedic arrangement one must separate from his family affairs at a certain age and fully depend on Krishna. This makes one's life successful. More
Prolife Politics
The king represents all living beings, the aquatics, plants, trees, reptiles, birds, animals and man. Every one of them is a part and parcel of the Supreme Lord (Bhagavad-gita 14.4), and the king, being the representative of the Supreme Lord, is duty-bound to give proper protection to every one of them. This is not the case with the presidents and dictators of this demoralized system of administration, where the lower animals are given no protection while the higher animals are given so-called protection. More
Planned Parenthood is not what you think it is
Because people are producing children against religious principles, therefore the whole world is full of varna-sankara [unwanted children], and there is no peace. More
Not Anti Woman, But Anti Material World
When I heard of all the dustup generated by one simple brahmacari's maintaining a website to discuss the perils of womanly association and sex life by citing Srila Prabhupada's counsel on all that – and that a segment of matajis actually objected to this – I could only think that all the statements Srila Prabhupada had made regarding the deficient long-term intelligence of the fair sex were once again being proven to be "Totally True"... More
Polygamy makes sense for some
If anyone is able to keep more than one wife and give them all comforts of life, there is no objection for having more than one wife. But if he creates trouble by marrying, he should not marry even one wife, this is my judgment. More
Maybe it's time to question why American society so vehemently opposes the natural impulse of marriage at a young age?
Sex life, sex urge is there as soon as twelve years, thirteen years old, especially women. So therefore early marriage was sanctioned in India. Early marriage. Boy fifteen years, sixteen years, and girl twelve years. More
The hypocrisy in stamping out polygamy
People have become so degraded in this age that on the one hand they restrict polygamy and on the other hand they hunt for women in so many ways. More
In Search of Something
From among these intelligent souls, those who are especially pious begin to keenly enquire about God and other spiritual topics. Others, who pursue ignoble material knowledge, cannot become successful in life and end up beating the chaff. More
Too Embarassing
When one is alone, brahmachari [unmarried], he has no condition, he lives freely. But as soon as he's married, so many obligations. More
Marriage and Krishna
Consciousness
In
Krishna consciousness, the important factor is “Is this person
dedicated to the service of Krishna and the spiritual master?” If the
answer is yes—and that's the first consideration—the next one of course
is, “Are we compatible?” More
Perverted Reflection
All our relationships here, either as master and servant or as friend and friend or as parents and child or as husband and wife or as lover and the beloved, any relationship, whatever we see here, that is the perverted reflection of our eternal relationship with God. More
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Less Than Human
After sex, the living entity takes shelter within the semina and ovum of the father and mother, and the formation is just like a small grain. That grain develops because the spirit soul has taken shelter. It is not that the body develops automatically, and at seven months there is life. More
No Sir, You are Not Safe
I am thinking, "Now I have got good home, good wife, nice children, nice bank balance. So I am safe now." More
Virtual Reality: First Subtle, Then Gross
The mind is the subtle substance in which the body is created, as we actually experience in our dreams and also when we are awake in contemplation. One must understand that the process of mental speculation develops a new type of body that does not actually exist. More
Fight Like a Man?
You are already not equal with the man because in so many respects,
your functions are different and man's functions are different. Why do
you say artificially they are equal? More
Class Not by Birth, Nor by
Economic Status
The
four divisions of society—namely intellectuals, administrators,
merchants, and laborers—should be determined not by birth but by merit,
just as one becomes a doctor or a judge not by birthright but by merit
alone. More
Old Age - Out from the
Mouths of Babes No one
keeps a dead body, however beautiful it might have been and however
much affection we might have had for the body while living. That
affection stops when life leaves the body. At that time, we can
understand that the body is not really beautiful at all; that the
element of beauty within the body was actually the soul. More
Save Yourself, Spidey
A
hunter spread his net. So some little birds, they fell down in the net
and they are crying. They are crying. So the father, mother, when they
came, they saw that their children are in danger: "It is caught by the
net of the hunter." More
There must be some
mistake - I'm not this body So why
there are different types of bodies? Because you wanted a particular
type of enjoyment under the influence of material nature. More
Who is this person I knew to
be my son, my brother? The so-called father
and mother have nothing to do with the living entity. As a result of
his own choice and karma, the living being takes different bodies
through the agency of so-called fathers and mothers. More
Violence at School When A.C.
Bhaktivedanta Swami (Srila Prabhupada) spoke these words in 1973, he
was referring to the misdirection of modern education, which back then
was churning out hippies, but now we see the literal truth of his words.
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Standard of care for
One's Elderly Parents If a person is able to
care for or give protection to old parents, children, the spiritual
master, brahmanas and other dependents, but does not do so, he is
considered to be already dead, although he is supposedly breathing.
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Consequences of Choice
There
is abortion. The body is killed. Contraception... The body is killed.
But the soul, he's not killed. If you make some inconvenience to the
soul, who has taken shelter in the womb, and you kill the body, then
he'll have to search out another body. More
Marriage for Restriction
Without
marriage, the man and woman will be open to so many other men and
women. Therefore it is to restrict. One man, one woman. More
Getting A Head in Life
In the
history there is no woman who is a big philosopher, a big
mathematician, big scientist, big educationist. We don't find. They
were all men. More
Death Sentence: Silver
Lining in the Cloud A small child walking
with his father goes on inquiring constantly. He asks his father so
many odd things, and the father has to satisfy him with proper answers.
When I was a young father in my householder life, I was overflooded
with hundreds of questions from my second son, who was my constant
companion. More
"Who is my Father? Who is my
Mother?"
"According
to the results of my fruitive activities, I, the living being,
transmigrate from one body to another... in which birth were these two
my mother and father?" More
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All of Us Transients
If a
rich man's son forgets his father, leaves home and becomes mad, he may
lie on the street to go to sleep, or he may beg money for food, but all
of this is due to his forgetfulness. More
Kali Coming of Age:
Unmarriage the Norm The boy takes charge
of the young girl from the custody of her father. This is marriage.
Woman, according to Vedic civilization, they are not recommended
freedom. They should be taken care just like children are taken care of.
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Nobody Survives Nobody
wants death, but we are talking of survival. Who can escape death?
There is no possibility. More
Surrounded on All Sides by
Sex It
is said in the Manu-smriti
that lust cannot be satisfied by any amount of sense enjoyment, just as
fire is never extinguished by a constant supply of fuel. In the
material world, the center of all activities is sex, and thus this
material world is called maithunya-agara, or the shackles of
sex life. More
Mercy Killing or Killing
Mercy?
The living entity gets a suitable body with a material mind and senses,
according to his fruitive activities. When the reaction of his
particular activity comes to an end, that end is called death, and when
a particular type of reaction begins, that beginning is called birth.
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Conception: Not Just a
Chemical Reaction It
follows that any father and mother should also be careful while
begetting children. The mental condition of a child depends upon the
mental status of his parents at the time he is conceived. More
Population on the Rise
(or Fall into Lower Species?) The modern theory—the
population has increased— this is a nonsense theory. If there is
production is sufficient, where is the question of population
increasing? Let population increase. More
Poignant Reminder:
Nobody's Safe
The
great ocean of material nature is tossing with the waves of time, and
the so-called living conditions are something like foaming bubbles,
which appear before us as bodily self, wife, children, society,
countrymen, etc. More
A
Reflection of the Mentality of Father and Mother at Time of Conception
The
mental state
of the father and mother before sex will certainly affect the mentality
of the child to be begotten. A child who is begotten out of lust may
not turn out as the parents desire. More
Rascal Culture Based on Sex
Disciple:
Srila Prabhupada, people sometimes criticize, "Your Vedic culture was
most solidly established in India. And India is now considered
relatively poor and unfortunate. So why should we respect the Vedic
culture?" More
The Greatest Barrier to
Spiritual Life
So
long this conception of life will exist, that, 'I am this body, and
anyone who is related with this body, they are my own men, kinsmen,
relatives...' This conception of life is the greatest barrier for
advancing in spiritual consciousness. More
Liberated Woman:
Out of Place
...In
Chicago I said, all women, "You cannot have freedom. You have got only
thirty-four ounce brain, and man has got sixty-four ounce." I told
them. So I became a subject of very great criticism. More
Something's Missing
In the
primary stage a child loves his parents, then his brothers and sisters,
and as he daily grows up he begins to love his family, society,
community, country, nation, or even the whole human society. But the
loving propensity is not satisfied even by loving all human society...
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Parents
and children...
All
parents look to their children, hoping they will embrace or carry on
their line of thought, but this is almost never the case, 80 to 90% of
the time. More
Your Wife Takes
Off With Your Best Friend!!
As
long as one is capable of earning money for his family, friends and
countrymen, then he will be respected and honored. But when we are
unable to earn money, then we will very quickly be rejected, forgotten
and neglected. More
Do You Really
Know Who You Are?
The mother and father
are just incidental. They create a favorable condition in which the
soul takes shelter and then expands to develop a particular kind of
body according to his past pious or impious actions. In this particular
life we have a mother and father. But before this life we also had a
mother and father, and when this life is finished, we shall have
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